More Thoughts on Friends

Saturday...thank somebody. I made it.

Friends and friendships....are they good for us? Hell yes, we create our situations and friends will tell us the truth about those situations or at least the good friends do. They can put reality into our fantasy and that dose of reality is usually needed.

Do friendships hurt? Yeah I think they do, but if it is a good friendship than that hurt is minimal to the amount of joy brought by that friend.

They take the down days and make them easier. They take the up days and bring them into light so we can enjoy them so fully. A good friend has a way of creating a comfort zone that feels perfect, even when we realize nothing is perfect.

A true friend is rare. When you find one, make sure to feed that relationship. Trust in it and believe in it. Because nothing in our lives besides our partners or kids will effect us as much. Don't forget like any good relationship it does take work and there are highs and lows. But the highs should always outweigh the lows or the friendship is not true enough.

It is a give and get situation. In the end or true selves come out with a good friend. We trust and believe. And in the end all we can do is smile and enjoy how great it is.

No person is an island and friends are the key to this...if we try to be one such, our friends will build a bridge to us.

As it should be....