Reality...
Our lives are what we have created. Not some spiritual being, not some higher power...but by your choices decisions and reactions.
For some folks this is just not something they can comprehend. Why? It is very simple and not "new age" like. Reach into yourself and find the answer. They all exist. They may not be easy to pick or move with, but they are there.
When commenting to others about things that make us upset one should remember that each of us made that choice. So instead of looking at it as a negative choice for you, see it from there perspective, it may hold new light. We do live in our individual worlds, but we cross-over and interweave so dramatically with one another that each step another is effected. Remember that when using your words...they can be crushing on another's path.
Some people use self help books and look for this magic bullet of information that will lead us to the life we want. Why? Again we have it all inside us. We just need to take those steps that are required to get where we want to go. Some of us realize this and still make choices based on staying where we are at.
Examples are everywhere in our society. I think one of the main ones is...image. How others perceive us...we care. Even the few of us who say it does not matter are full of it. We all care to some degree. There in lies the difference is to the degree at which we care. Caring is healthy but overly caring is a poor choice of our time and energy. Shows lack of confidence or a need of acceptance. Accept yourself regardless of what others think and eventually those that need to be in your life will be. Stop worrying about "the neighbors", start worrying about yourself and you will find Peace or at least some.
Friends...what an amazing thing they are, don't abuse 'em. They are much easier to hurt when they are close to us. Having someone who knows us makes us vulnerable, there is good and bad in that. They can support us like no one and on that same frame they can hurt us like no one. Support is flawless and splendid. However if one is hurt, take the time before reacting and think about why, how,and what that end means.
We all need support in many many issues, don't lose sight of that. Look and choose words carefully when discussing hurt. Also...look inside yourself cause hurt is also a reflection of more from both sides and one needs to fully understanding that before trudging through deep waters with friends. They are to important to not pay attention to all sides. Think carefully cause the words you use may be destructive in ways that were never intended. Think before speaking.
Let the Truth guide you. Find your Peace and have fun.
For some folks this is just not something they can comprehend. Why? It is very simple and not "new age" like. Reach into yourself and find the answer. They all exist. They may not be easy to pick or move with, but they are there.
When commenting to others about things that make us upset one should remember that each of us made that choice. So instead of looking at it as a negative choice for you, see it from there perspective, it may hold new light. We do live in our individual worlds, but we cross-over and interweave so dramatically with one another that each step another is effected. Remember that when using your words...they can be crushing on another's path.
Some people use self help books and look for this magic bullet of information that will lead us to the life we want. Why? Again we have it all inside us. We just need to take those steps that are required to get where we want to go. Some of us realize this and still make choices based on staying where we are at.
Examples are everywhere in our society. I think one of the main ones is...image. How others perceive us...we care. Even the few of us who say it does not matter are full of it. We all care to some degree. There in lies the difference is to the degree at which we care. Caring is healthy but overly caring is a poor choice of our time and energy. Shows lack of confidence or a need of acceptance. Accept yourself regardless of what others think and eventually those that need to be in your life will be. Stop worrying about "the neighbors", start worrying about yourself and you will find Peace or at least some.
Friends...what an amazing thing they are, don't abuse 'em. They are much easier to hurt when they are close to us. Having someone who knows us makes us vulnerable, there is good and bad in that. They can support us like no one and on that same frame they can hurt us like no one. Support is flawless and splendid. However if one is hurt, take the time before reacting and think about why, how,and what that end means.
We all need support in many many issues, don't lose sight of that. Look and choose words carefully when discussing hurt. Also...look inside yourself cause hurt is also a reflection of more from both sides and one needs to fully understanding that before trudging through deep waters with friends. They are to important to not pay attention to all sides. Think carefully cause the words you use may be destructive in ways that were never intended. Think before speaking.
Let the Truth guide you. Find your Peace and have fun.
posted by E at 11:02 AM
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