Reality...

We each have our own, however one can hope they may be similar. Sometimes they seem to be miles apart. Those be the times we need to listen or maybe the times we need to learn.

If your reality seems distances away from someone you care about you may want to take the time to figure out why and in doing so allow yourself to see another perspective, let your reality be wrong in examing someone else's...try hard at seeing another side. From there find the holes that you truly believe exist and think about ways to reconcile your differences.

Jumping in and attacking another's set of rules will not win any situation. One must come to and understanding clearly of what it is to be on the other side. To simply step back and contemplate may help the situation, but in the end believe in yourself.

Do your best at being fair, but do not squash your reality just trying to figure out someone else's. It be good to understand another and try and see and learn from it. Take all the knowledge you can from others and make the best decision you can with the most complete picture you have. In the end do what is right for you and hopefully it may be right for others as well.